How to Turn Up Your Attraction to Your Partner


How to Turn Up Your Attraction to Your Partner


Every couple goes through periods where your partner just seems normal. The glamor seems gone, or at least diminished, and it can lead to wondering where the magic went. But here are five ways to turn up your attraction to your partner without looking elsewhere (or trying to turn him or her into somebody else).

1. Focus on Your Partner. When he’s in the room, pay attention. Notice the proximity, what he’s wearing and what he’s doing. When you were first falling in love, you probably gazed at him all the time, constantly aware of his every move, and you can recreate this mindset by not taking his presence for granted. When he’s there, notice, even if you can’t do anything about it.

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5 Steps to Processing a Break-Up


Breaking up is a sad but sometimes unavoidable ordeal after a relationship has soured and things are no longer working out. You and your partner split ways, and whether you’ve been together for five months or five years, it hurts. The emptiness, the fights, the physical ordeal of taking apart lives that had been knit together is never pleasant, but here are 5 ways to move through it and get “over” the trying period.

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