How to Turn Up Your Attraction to Your Partner

 

How to Turn Up Your Attraction to Your Partner

 

Every couple goes through periods where your partner just seems normal. The glamor seems gone, or at least diminished, and it can lead to wondering where the magic went. But here are five ways to turn up your attraction to your partner without looking elsewhere (or trying to turn him or her into somebody else).

1. Focus on Your Partner. When he’s in the room, pay attention. Notice the proximity, what he’s wearing and what he’s doing. When you were first falling in love, you probably gazed at him all the time, constantly aware of his every move, and you can recreate this mindset by not taking his presence for granted. When he’s there, notice, even if you can’t do anything about it.

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3 Ways to Tell if Your Sex Life is Struggling and How to Fix It

 

When it comes to sex, like so many other areas of our lives, it can be easy to use comparison as a gauge of how well we’re doing. We ask ourselves, “Am I having it as often as my friends?” “Enjoying it as much as my partner?” “As much as I used to?” but comparisons and memory can fail, so here are three ways to tell if your sex life is struggling (and how to fix it) without involving anyone else’s opinion in the equation.

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