Vocalizations of any kind during sex can be a subjective subject. Some people can’t imagine being quiet, while others might roll their eyes at how loud someone else is being. So here are some pros and cons to consider about when you might want to be vocal, and when you might want to stay quiet.
When it comes to sex, like so many other areas of our lives, it can be easy to use comparison as a gauge of how well we’re doing. We ask ourselves, “Am I having it as often as my friends?” “Enjoying it as much as my partner?” “As much as I used to?” but comparisons and memory can fail, so here are three ways to tell if your sex life is struggling (and how to fix it) without involving anyone else’s opinion in the equation.