We’re all rockstar daters here, but who couldn’t use a few extra tips? Read below for 6 tips to make that guy fall for you.
1. Be Yourself
Believe it or not, men desire a genuine connection too. To achieve that end, be the best self you can be, but still be yourself. Trying to be someone else might work for a little while, but it’s exhausting, and he’ll find out eventually.
2. Be Lighthearted
Although you may have serious intent when it comes to dating, it’s also fun too. Don’t be afraid to let your silly side out and show him that you’re willing to have a good time, in whatever way that means to you. It’s good to remember that dating isn’t a chore or something to get through; it’s a bit of a game, but games can also be exciting.
3. Holding Out On sex
Now this has nothing to do with moral standing, but denying him at first can make him want you more. It could make keep him chase you harder, going after that forbidden fruit. For me, when I date, I don’t want to withhold it for too long (I’m not telling how long that is), because then he could lose interest. But somewhere in-between those two is something tantalizing.
4. Being Visual
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but men are visual creatures. They are often attracted to your style and the way you put yourself together. Looks aren’t everything, but it is the very first impression. Be yourself and try to look natural, but there’s nothing wrong with accenting your natural beauty.
5. Make Eye Contact
Studies show that it can take over a dozen instances of eye contact before a man gets over his fear of rejection and makes the first move (if you’re the type of gal who likes him to make the first move). A fun way to do this is to make eye contact and then lower your eyes, touching your lips or hair. Try it. It’s fun. This doesn’t just have to be for the single ladies. Try it on your boyfriend or husband. Flirting doesn’t have to stop once the commitment begins.
6. Be an Information Tease
I know, guys, you hate this, but it works. Being a little bit mysterious and not showing all of your cards at once can drive a guy wild, in a good way. It can make you seem like a sexy riddle for him to solve, and we all know how guys love to solve things. Similar to playing hard to get, there is a way to overdo this, but sprinkling in some mystery can add a lot of spice to dating.